failure is a blessing in disguise

The failures in life can either make you or break you. It is up to you how you take it, whether you fight with troubles and rise above them or you let those troubles destroy you. Ups and downs in life can make you strong and bring out the best in you. However, they can also completely break you if you let them take hold of you. 

A hero lies within you

A hero lies within all of us. All that is required is to recognize this hero and to assess our true potential. Adversities in life often help us in recognizing and bringing out our best.

Can you identify this with yourself?

Did any adverse situation in life helped in bringing out the hero within you? 

Bitter or better?

Life would have its own ups and downs. It is your choice whether you choose the better and forget the bitter or do the opposite. It entirely depends on you whether you emerge as a victor or become a victim of adverse situations in life.

What would you do: turn bitter or better?

Life is about the choices we make

Life lies between B and D i.e. birth and death. In between B and D lies C, which stands for choice. Life is therefore all about the choices we make. These choices define us, our character, and our worth and impact our lives. The hard thing, however, is to live with these choices. These various choices are described below:

Choice of happiness versus sadness: Only you can decide if you want to be happy or not.

Choice of forgiveness versus ruthlessness

Choice of positive versus negative

Choice of aggressive versus peaceful

Choice of Greed versus generosity

Resilience is a choice

Just as happiness is a choice, resilience is also a choice. Resilience helps one prepare for disruptions in life, and adapt and grow in the face of adversity and setbacks. It will also help one recover from shocks and stresses in life. There is no human being in this world that has not come across an adversity at some point of his/her life. It is easy to give up in face of the circumstances. However, what make a person successful is never to give up, no matter what life presents to him/her. 

Happiness increases on sharing

                                                                                                                       Gautam Buddha

Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle and the life of that candle does not shorten. Similarly happiness never decreases on being shared.  In fact, happiness is the only thing which multiples several folds on being shared. By being happy you tend to make people surrounding you happy as well. Being happy certainly does not imply that one’s life is perfect. It simply means that they have understood the true meaning of life and agreed to look beyond its imperfections. The best way to be happy is not to dwell in the past, not to dream of future, but to concentrate on the present moment and by appreciating what ever you have, even if it appears to be little. Happiness never comes to those people who do not appreciate whatever they have.

Smile is a curve which sets everything straight

A smile is the most beautiful free creation of the God which is bound to make almost everything alright again. Smiling across tough situations helps you explore positivity in life. It can take care of numerous tears and sorrows. Sometimes life gives you no choice but to face your fears with a smile. One thing is sure; a smile would always make you emerge as a winner in life. It does make things easier, it just make you stronger.